Mike's Mailbag: Frenemies

I am a freshman in high school and I swim on an extremely competitive club team. I would define my teammates as “frenemies”. I'm not sure this dynamic is worth my time. Please help.


Mike Gustafson: Starting Out

The other day, I was interviewed by an elementary school student. He wanted to know if I had any advice for people starting out. I had to think hard.

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